To my ex's, ex gf who is now his friend: Becca, I know you think you're ugly and that maybe you think you'll die alone, but I think you're a very responsible, kind, and beautiful person. You just need to be true to how you think and feel. I'm having a rough time too. I don't feel warm and fuzzy toward you right now, but I can relate to a lot of the things you say. I know you need this as much as me if not more. Just pull through.