We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and%u2014in spite of True Romance magazines%u2014we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do not say lonely%u2014at least, not all the time%u2014but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important, and I don't see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness.