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I just wanted to say to any person out there who didn't see the red flags... you're not stupid. You didn't know. You gave it your all in a relationship and got burned. Maybe badly. You're stronger and wiser, NOT stupid. No you didn't deserve to be treated the way you were. You can't change him or her and it's not your responsibility to make them act like decent human beings. You're not their mom or pop and you shouldn't have to be. You're responsible for yourself only and since you're still alive reading this, I congratulate you. It means you love yourself and you now have the knowledge and experience to set boundaries and enforce your boundaries. It means you now have the bare bones to guidelines for what you expect in a good relationship. As Elsa said, "I'm never going back/the past is in the past". As it applies here, you're not going back to the same kind of guys or girls in your past. *hugs you*

You are a beautiful person no matter what others tell about you. Our flaws make us human. You have to start seeing your beautiful streaks before you expect others to see it. Let's appreciate our bodies more, because we are beautiful human beings.

If I could, I would give everyone a hug. Everyone deserves a hug.

Please don't starve yourself. Please eat.

I just want to tell everyone out there that it's okay to not be okay, because it won't last forever.

We are a brotherhood and sistehood of sufferers. If you suffer you are one of us. We understand, we love you, we join with you in suffering. You are not alone, no matter how much it feels like it. Though our shared compassion and awareness of each other's various sufferings we can share in the warm beating heart. It may be not perfect but its something.

We love you, we won't forget you, we will advocate for you.

I guess you didn't care.

You are all special angels

Always remember that you are living a better and life then me