Wives, have sex with your husbands please. I have seen it time and time again. After women get married, a lot of them stop giving out and then get so surprised when the guy strays. Don't get me wrong, there are many men who would stray anyway but I know some really nice guys who are almost forced to stray due to desperation. It is kind of cruel. What are the men supposed to do? What did you expect? The women never get it though and I am forced to pretend to be shocked when news of their husband's betrayal is discovered. It gets old. So wives, be kind to your man and give out; don't worry you might just like it. It is the kindest thing to do.